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I suspected it was that bad

Posted by Thinker on October 23, 2008 at 08:54:50

In Reply to: Re: My thoughts posted by Jewlz on October 22, 2008 at 23:41:09:

Jewlz, I am happy to have been of any help at all to you, in your difficult situation. Pete's behavior is so unforgivable. Don't waste forgiveness on someone who doesn't deserve it or even want it. For your sake I hope you do find a peace of mind accepting that you can't change the past or present, because it is not all in your hands, and you are not the bad guy! Pete is just continuing as he was, being Pete, and daily hurting you and Steve. And you know he is saying it was all due to you and how your took his son away and made an unrecognizable Systemite out of him! Well don't buy it, not even for a minute! It's NOT your fault that Pete is the way he is -- his taking after Berg is what created the problem.

You are not the bad guy here. You are the good parent.
You are not the bad guy here. You are the good parent.

That should be your mantra! :-)

Big hug to you. Do take care, Jewlz!