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In Reply to: Re: Somehow we are just not getting each other posted by Coordinator on September 21, 2007 at 19:58:13:
using simple declarative sentences.
The position that seems to be expressed in several ways is that the only protection the coordinators can offer is some sort of google screening. I am no techno wiz, but as I said before, this really does little to assure the family they won't simply complicate things more. (reposts on other sites etc.)
My untechnical proposal was to simply not use full legal or bible names, but rather bible name initials coupled w/ other easily recognizable identifiers which would not google. (I think somewhere in the site policies there is this option when a different set of circumstances, but with a similar concern, bible name initials were an option.)
As far as the problems for these folks to move on, I think that has been clearly outlined by Jo Anne, Johnny Reb, and my previous posts. I believe they are moving on, but not without major difficulties.
"What do I want?" World peace. But I'd be happy with as many former members and their children to be able to heal and build healthy families. All I suggested to you folks was a simple way that seemed like it might help in that cause. No fuss intended.
"Am I the people in question?" I clearly stated I was not personally involved nor even know who the SG posters are exactly. Have I given you reason to doubt my veracity? Have I questioned yours?
I feel bad that perhaps I've stirred up emotions that only confuse things.
I truly believe that this family is deeply sorry for their involvement, would appreciate an opportunity to make their heartfelt regrets and feelings known, if they felt they could do so without further problems for their family.
I hope folks here can figure a way out. Peace.