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In Reply to: Re: The facts were not twisted. posted by One Who Knows on February 23, 2006 at 16:31:50:
OK so I’ve read over your rebuttal and corrections the ONLY one thing that I can see that I left out of my original post was the fact she got some treatment there. I was not aware of the existent of her treatment in Slovakia we will have to look into that.
That changes little however, So f-ing what! They paid for a bit of kimo, that’s the very least they should do! It’s about time they did something for someone.
You said “IN THIS CASE, THE FAMILY HAD REALLY NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. IF ANYTHING THEY TRIED THEIR BEST TO ACCOMMODATE.”
That is a load of crap! Since when does the family “try their best to accommodate” anyone? And they have a lot to do with everything. For one your telling me that they did all they could to accommodate her? So they paid for some kimo? Yet they wouldn’t pay for her family and kids to attend her funeral? To be honest I don’t know what happened on that side it’s something we’re still looking into but I do know what happened on this side.
This poor dying woman arrives on a plane without anyone helping her and without a penny to her name! Not even money for food medicine or anything! It was unbelievable to my husband and her sister who I have met and talked to who was also there when she died. It was apparent her family was expected to take care of her from there on. She was in the hospital for over a month here, that’s a huge bill which her family is covering and they are not a wealthy family. They paid for everything including her burial. I know Frank probably didn’t have the money, I understand why he couldn’t help but the Family does have the money! It’s extremely upsetting to me when people like her who have dedicated their life to the family are discarded and left penniless when they are dying and there is no further use.
So why did the family who so graciously paid for her Kimo not give this poor man who’s wife had just died money for him to go to her funeral?? That’s awful! And you say he couldn’t go because “he was alone with the kids”?? That is the poorest excuse I’ve heard yet! HE WAS IN THE FAMILY! I lived my whole life in the family and was rarely watched by my own parents. Your telling me the family couldn’t send even one person to watch his kids so he could bury his this woman who he says he loved so much!
I know Frank is probably trying to convince himself he did all he could do, we all do that when someone were close to dies. But he needs to wake the F up! I have no respect for people like him who are still spend their whole life worshiping and supporting a man and woman who were pedophiles!
Of course you would say that Frank/ Ben Fisher is “A pretty decent chap” You are a FGA who doesn’t take sides not a SGA that was under his control.
You can tell Ben fisher/Frank or whatever he goes by now that the only reason my husband has kept his mouth shut about him and his treatment of his mother, him and other sga’s is because of his friendship with his kids. Who call him all the time begging him to talk to you, and begging him not to say anything bad about you because they want to stay a family and don’t want to upset you. All his kids are leaving the family, why doesn’t get out of that brainwashing cult and go be a father!
And you, you are the worst kind I can’t stand the most! You are wishy-washy, with no backbone to stand up and correct the evil they have done or the abuse they have administered in fact you don’t even seem to care but yet all of a sudden you feel a since of justice in having to correct the “lies and twisted truths” of my post, bravo!. So, I missed one thing I’m always open to corrections and am willing to correct anything I say if I was misinformed, I’m always for setting the record straight. A simple “Excuse me Sarafina, you may not be aware of this since you weren’t here but she did receive some treatment here that was covered by the family” would have sufficed but instead you have to jump out there accusing me of lying and twisting the facts when that really wasn’t the case.
Regarding “BTW, YOUR HUSBAND ISN’T HER SON EITHER, RIGHT? “
Actually, he is legally her son, where as Frank is not legally her husband. If you’re referring to his adoption I already explained the rest of that story of how he was given away by an FGA to another in a reply to Jewlz in another post under this subject.
Maybe this wasn’t the best example but there are hundreds of others similar and much worse that I could have used but this was something fresh in my mind, Anyways I have to go now, I’ve wasted to much time on this. I’m sorry to have drag all you on here into this some what personal matter. Maybe it was to soon for me to be discussing what happened as it still gets me heated just thinking of it and talking to my husband about it. I’m usually very careful about details I post.
