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In Reply to: Nice of you, thanks... posted by Farmer on October 13, 2004 at 01:38:39:
cool! thanks for your post. the sad part of the deal was when i left TF and pete stayed in he begged me not to move out as he couldnt bear to be away from steven. and stupid me felt so sorry for him stating "i could never be that cruel and take anyones child away from them" i agreed to stay with him for "the sake of the child". let him do his thing and me do mine. (my life was just beginning on the outside). after this big confrontation of tears & agreements - the very next day he abducted steven. and it wasnt a spur of the moment thing - he had already - 6 months prior had the passports etc already forged & had been stashing stevens clothes in an airport locker for 6 months. but i was one of the first kidnap cases in this country that was fought in the courts & because of my case i had the Family Law changed in that custody & sole guardianship was granted to me even with the other parent not there (hope that makes sense). Prior to that - no matter what nothing could be granted unless both parent were at least there. japan was a different story. totally paternal society & wouldnt give me a second glance unless i had custody of steve. cheers!
