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In Reply to: Memory posted by Max on April 05, 2004 at 09:40:52:
Hi Max, good for you to be out and away from TF. Yes it does take a lot of RE-BRAINWASHING as I call it. It took me quiet some time to understand that in my case it helps, helped and will help me when I keep being on this site on the movingon and similiar ones. For me to be confronted, bit by bit, and for me to realize that these thoughts and "feelings" can be controlled be myself. It`s almost 6 yrs. that I left TF officialy with 6 of my 8 kids. It is a process of starting all over new, not again.NEW ist the keyword that guided me so strongly . So my thinking pattern also became new. Instead of always being Polite and "nice" I usually get what I want and need. Living a new life is hard in the beginning but its worthwhie and I love the chaallange and living my life, with 45,anew. I wish you the best and start thinking in NEW terms. You decided to start to live, but without the old one. Leave it where it belongs: in the PAST!!!!
