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In Reply to: Re: Taking our share of blame, but not all of it posted by Karen on August 04, 2002 at 21:53:09:
Goodness - you are a victim, not a perpetrator - and need healing just as much as the next guy. That much is clear to me.
I can relate to this continuous apology - my mantra which my kids hated was "I'm such a wicked mother" and I just hated myself. That was non-productive. What you say is so true, Karen - it's hardest to forgive ourselves, we sure don't need others pointing the fingers at exmembers when we're already trying to get over a huge guilt complex built up by berg and his cronies for years and years.
