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In Reply to: .....and they got away with it. posted by exfamchild on June 18, 2002 at 16:59:07:
I know two sets of brothers who were molested by the guy who sexaully assaulted my daughters. The boys were around 7 and 9 when it happened. We are talking coerced acts of masturbation and oral sex - the creep would encourage them to eat his sperm by tasting it himself and saying, "eat it, see? it is good" I guess it was part of creep lessons 101, the way he would 'teach' children how to become his sex slaves. They actually have a method and a way they go about it. Perhaps we could post details on that, instead of having to read all these apologists posts on the poor perps? A nice course on the details of how to convince/coerce/persuade a child to suck you off? How to attempt the rape of an 8 yr old? How to gag the 8 yr old so there is no chance she will be heard? (it takes a pretty creepy mind for that, don't you think?)
2 of these brothers have not talked about it, that I know of, one of the other 2 has totally removed the event, the other can still detail the whole thing.
In the case of my daughters, there was sexual assault, repeatedly, in the middle of the night, on their room, when I was sleeping. That included all the imaginable sexual acts you can think of, rape, and in the case of one of them a sodomy attempt. (For a 6 yr old some of these events can be so hurtful, frightful, and traumatic to impact a lifetime)
My question to you is, why didn't you tell your father? In most cases, as you describe, the event is lived with such a sense of shame, repulsion and confusion, that often the children do not tell even the parents, because it would be too difficult for them to verbalize the events. When, and did you ever tell your Dad or anybody else for that matter?
I think the set up of having to live with strangers dubbed "uncles and aunties" was one of the worst possible settings. Not that we had background checks on people or anything, mind you. Sometimes when we would hear rounds of testimonies, I would think "how did I ever end up with people with such questionable pasts?" I mean, the kind of stuff some of these people had been through and boasted about in their personal testimonies was to me a warning sign to say the least.
I used to be afraid, because as a teenager (I joined when 16) I experienced being constantly preyed upon myself in the F and it gave me the creeps to be around people who were 'automatic brothers' and 'uncles' when I felt I would not want to touch them with a ten foot pole. Brother my ass - brother, as friend, as a very deep meaning to me, and it cannot be just thrown around to a total stranger like that.
Yet, even though I did not buy into this 'show your love bullshit' and was guarded for years, not trusting my kids in other people's childcare, it still happened, because these creeps are BOLD, bolder than you or I could ever dream to be. It takes a mind like that one to prey on young kids and figure out ways to do it.
Sorry about being so long - I mainly would like to hear your answer to my question. Thanks.
