I should also mention

Posted by Coordinator on May 24, 2012 at 02:11:35

In Reply to: Re: Your ban is still effective posted by Coordinator on May 23, 2012 at 16:18:05:

You posted various statements that exFamily.org does not wish to be associated with and refused to back down when confronted. These confrontations have always started with gentle explanations, which escalated into warnings that you refused to heed.

For example, you posted some racist comments and, like most people who are genuinely ignorant and/or racist, were unable to understand or accept the reactions and explanations, and your rebuttals were even more embarassing to read.

You also seized on Ricky's exit, ordering that he immediately do this and that for the sake of all exmembers, at a time when he was vulnerable and really didn't need the pressure. You refused to back off when it was explained to you and even when you were subsequently warned. It was such pressure coupled with personal pain and vulnerability that ultimately lead to Rick's murder-suicide death (note that I am not stating that you were responsible, just that you would not desist when we pointed out that you were not being mindful of the healing and space Ricky needed to process his trauma).

Replies to this Post:

• I've consulted with the other coordinators Coordinator May 24, '12 05:07
  • Re: I've consulted with the other coordinators Long time visitor May 26, '12 06:46