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Posted by long time exer on December 22, 2011 at 13:09:00
In Reply to: Re: TFI and the Lima sydrome???? posted by Farmer on December 21, 2011 at 17:03:01:
I think you are projecting here. Maybe there is something you did that you regret and havent come to terms with or something.
YOu jumped on me when further down the board I commented about Stockholm Syndrome to make sense of the confusion about how certain abhorent things were tolerated as much as they went against what was natural.
Secondly, every generation of youth rebels and whether sex, drugs and rock and roll, hippie dippie days or eighties sex, drugs and DePeche Mode, or Nineties Hole and Kurt Cobain- those are not things that defined individuals as perverts but youth as acting out. I joined as a teen and had not had sex (molestation doesn't count) before joining.
Regarding other issues, I was never a leader except briefly in earlier days then split from my significant other. After that time, I was largely involved in whatever was the norm- like litnessing and then later music/busking/clubs. There were times i really wanted to leave and felt trapped. I also felt wrong when I finally did leave, until I got my head screwed on straight. I feel like my slate is clean and nothing to confess here or elsewhere, but if I did have something, I wouldn't do it here with you posting at this site.
Sexual sharing was not a welcome thing to me, not because I am morally superior but because the effects of molestation in my childhood were to avoid sex, not engage in it and I actually got dealt with quite harshly while in TF for my resistance.
Now, if you want to put a boot on your own neck and step down, have fun. But you have no right to judge me and tell me I am in some sort of denial blah blah blah
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