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Posted by A a a c on September 28, 2011 at 16:13:15
In Reply to: Re: What to do? You did plenty posted by Farmer on September 28, 2011 at 13:29:03:
Your reply is rather long, which is not a bad thing, thanks for taking the time to write. Obviously this subject triggered many thoughts for you. Only thing is, now I don't know where to begin answering you. Here are some questions that stick out from your post.
Did the father once ask...how you managed over all those years...showing concern? ----- NO
Did he ask, what he could do now for you? ------- NO
Isn't the minimum...pretty big minimum surely...to be honest with his offspring?? ----- I DON'T KNOW IF HE SHOULD BE REQUIRED TO OPEN THIS CAN OF WORMS IF HIS CHILDREN WERE NEVER EXPOSED TO HIS SEXUAL ABUSE.
Also, how did he get "converted"...without reading what you published...how did he realise his crime/sin??I am curious....consciousness??? ------- I THINK MAYBE IT IS BECAUSE I CONFRONTED HIM. I DON'T KNOW. HE GOT HOLD OF MY NUMBER SOME YEARS AGO AND WOULD TEXT ME GOOEY XMAS MESSAGES EVERY DECEMBER. I TOLD HIM TO STOP SENDING ME THESE TEXTS, TO STOP PRETENDING EVERYTHING WAS FINE AND THAT HIS DARK DEEDS WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN, AND THAT IF HE WAS A CHRISTIAN, TO REMEMBER WHAT JEBUS SAID ABOUT MILLSTONES AND THOSE WHO HARM LITTLE CHILDREN. HE STOPPED TEXTING ME AND THEN I DIDN'T SEE HIM FOR A FEW YEARS. BY THE TIME I MET HIM AGAIN LAST WEEK HE WAS VERY BROKEN UP ABOUT IT.
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