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In Reply to: Re: well I didn't know that posted by Farmer on November 18, 2009 at 01:13:17:
Farmer...thank you very much for the encouragement, coming from a former member I'm sure she will gain some strength from it and I'm make sure to pass it on to her.
She is hurting....alot and I know that her daughter is a big factor in her wanting to leave. She wants to be a good mother to her, she's a very admirable person and I have nothing but respect for her. She expresses to me that she's scared sick, but it won't deter her from doing what she knows is right.
You seem much like her, your kind and caring, and I'm sorry for all the travisties you had to endure it just doesn't seem fair that good people get taken advantage of. I have told her that the real world isn't always a nice place either, I won't lie to her to get her to want to leave. I tell her that here people that do things to her have to face consequences for their actions.
It's amazing just how much she didn't know about the real world, she's been so sheltered her whole life she hasn't even gone out to eat. Never got her hair cut in a salon or her nails done.
I appreciate your help and would like to talk to you on a more private level if you'd like so maybe possibly you could talk to her yourself to offer your own sense of encouragement. I'm sure coming from an "exer" would mean more to her than anything I could say.
my email : if you'd like to talk more in depth I won't share too much here, but if you'd like to know more just hit me up in email
thank you so much I really appreciate it
