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In Reply to: Re: Ive forgotten my exfam name! ha posted by Jewlz on October 22, 2008 at 23:30:02:
You're welcome...well, your situation might differ quite a bit from mine/ours in the regard, that if your ex is still "in" (TF), with head/heart/feet...then that poses definetely some problem...I read in your response to Thinker, that he, your ex, won't respond??...wouldn't let himself be addressed as father??
It's one thing to be open for dialogue, safe contact...email,ICQ, voice over internet etc. , but if he's "that lame"???, what can you do...important is, that you thought of your son's emotions & that you discuss it with him, the pros & cons, matters involved.His safety ranks first to you, I bet you explained all that...wasn't your son once kidnapped??In that case your ex would have a very long way to regain your trust, because that is in my country a big legal offence.
I think the most positive I get for right now out of this pic is: you showed in inner willingness to
stretch out your hand...if that is "slapped or bitten"...then may be he's close to incorrigable...you figure after such a long time, he would??...oh well.I guess your ex might be in this dire need to "obey" the "first lady" & any paternal obligation/links/obstacles shouldn't
hinder??...on the way to????
