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In Reply to: Fidelity posted by Swede on April 12, 2006 at 02:15:55:
i have been involved with married men a couple of times part of me says its wrong and part of me says no its not as this was what i grew up in and it was ok . Growing up this way cost me my first marriage i got pregnant at the age of 16 to get away from my parents and the children of god i married a non member i thought i could put all of this behind me but havent I just recently told my children about this as my 15 year old read the article in a teen magazine and showed it to me i had nightmares that night of all the abuse that happened to me . i still have a hard time with the issue of fidelity i have been cheated on and it HURTS my second husband did that to me and now i feel like a road thats divided one side says never get involved that i will only get hurt like when i was a child one side says just have sex with who ever its ok u dont have to be faithful
