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In Reply to: Sarafina, where did you get these twisted facts? posted by One who knows on February 23, 2006 at 06:45:26:
I was not trying to twist any facts; the facts were not twisted in my opinion but maybe missing some details. I’m sorry I did not have time to write her entire medical history I was running out of time and my post was already getting extremely long.
I agree that I was not there in Slovakia so I do not know all the facts that happened there. I did ask my husband about it more and he said she did receive some treatment there but that apparently according to the doctors here was considered pretty primitive and standard procedures were not applied.
I personally don’t know much about cancer so maybe I’m not the best one explaining what happened. All I know is what she told my husband (her son) and how she had wanted to come here sooner. Whatever happened I guess we will never know but whatever she told her son and the doctors about her treatment was extremely unsatisfactory to both. And because of it he no longer speaks to Frank who btw is not her husband as they aren’t married.
Were you there at the time she was receiving all this treatment or when she wanted to stop it? Or were you also hearing the story secondhand from Frank?
She had told my husband at one point that they were praying and having faith. OF course he wasn't there either so maybe they weren't telling him everything to save him the pain of details. Maybe this is when you said she had stopped the treatment it's possible I'll give you that.
But Maybe you can you explain why he did not fly with her when like you said she was a “deadly sick woman that almost did not get admitted on to the flight because of her desperate condition?”
Can you explain why none of them attended her funeral other then her son and his father (who was actually her husband)? Why did they not offer any help with the funeral (not that it would have been accepted) but all the cost left to her sisters who had been taking care of her here.
Why wasn’t she sent here sooner? Her son says that she told him she’d wanted to come long before.
And why was she not on any sedative medication for the pain? You’re telling me she refused it there as well? Then why did she so readily accept it while here?
Why wasn’t the blood clotting treated there? Her swelling went down considerably after just a few days on the treatment here.
Your right, maybe the story is missing facts, maybe knowing these facts would help explain things better to my husband as just mentioning the subject infuriates him. I don’t think his anger is coming from no where. Something happened, and something is not right. Maybe she would have died anyways regardless of wither she got the proper treatment but that is something we will never know now will we.
I’m done with this conversation, it makes me sick. I wouldn’t be so quick to defend that man either, your “friend”. I have not met him personally so I won’t get into it but there are a lot of people I know who have a lot to say about him. His actions and treatment of others and the fact that he is still in the family says enough for me.
