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"loving"??? "intimate"???

Posted by sick of the mindbending on August 30, 2005 at 16:12:33

In Reply to: Sanitized text found posted by grrr on August 30, 2005 at 15:51:57:

This is from (here I quote LJ Ward) "Child Abuse?! An Official Statement from the Founders of the Children of God" which began with a quote from Moses David dated December 1988:"

Emphasis added:

"In order to try to substantiate these absolutely false charges against us (of sex between adults and minors and adults and young children) some of our opponents have begun reproducing and distributing an article which was published within our group over 10 years ago. Although the article in question does make reference to an UNUSUALLY LOVING relationship between the young woman who wrote it and the child she was caring for, even a quick glance makes it clear that the article is only the writer's account of her own personal experience and opinions. And it is by no means any kind of policy setting or instructional text. Such INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS between minors and adults have never been officially encouraged or condoned within our fellowship and it was a very unfortunate oversight and mistake on our part 10 years ago to have allowed such an article to be published. Since then we have expressly forbidden and condemned any such conduct among our members."

No wonder some of us struggle to establish "loving" or "intimate" romantic relationships as adults.