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In Reply to: were you a former leader? posted by Acheick on April 01, 2005 at 10:17:16:
Dear Acheick, I think we were all former leaders at one time or another, and the fruit of reading these pubs are obvious even here on this board. You will see, it will be like starting a new cult to try to "prove to Family members" something. It won't matter if you can quote them Mo Letter and paragraph till the cows come home. That will only strengthen their convictions that you are their enemy and they will be come all the more estranged from you.
They will be won over by a sample of real love
and concern. KIndness and acceptance, friendship. Not blowing them away by showing them or quoting them what you"know " to be the truth. This is the thing TF members are conditioned against and recognize right away. They will avoid you like the plague and not let their children near you. Befriending them and showing them true friendship, them seeing you are living a happy and frutiful life, are not bitter towards TF, are humble and sincere, these things will speak to them much louder than quoting them old Mo Letters. Maria and Peter will and the WS crew will be laughing behind the scenes because they know this will not work , it will only further their cause.
