women in the Family

I hope I don't offend too many people by what I have to say but I've been thinking about the SG's and how they feel about FG's and to be honest I feel that way about the MEN in the Family that raped me. If one of the guys that forced me to have sex with him was here I wouldn't want to converse with him either. Trouble is there is no way of knowing if we are hanging out with our perpetrators.