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In Reply to: To Tazy posted by Kinda Gentler on August 09, 2004 at 03:02:22:
Thanks for those words of understaning and support, KG (and A. too).
It is only in the last few years that I have recognised the true source of the pain of my divorce as having stemmed from experiences in TF, so, yes, I am dealing with it now. Perhaps it took so long to recognise because of the way we just drifted away when we settled down (I got a job and overtime it was just didn't seem to make sense to keep believing and doing the Family line - so we stopped!). Its only in hind sight (isn't that such a *wonderful* thing?) can I see that those years between when we left in 1980 until we divorced in 1989 were so affected by TF still.
Fortunately the kids seem none-the-worse for it all now.