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In Reply to: this is great - how about a project? posted by Acheick on July 27, 2004 at 11:47:00:
* Ask The Family questions such as these that describe controlling groups:
Does The Family value loyalty to one's conscience and God's call more than loyalty to their organization and leadership?
Does The Family make everything they believe public, rather than foster an atmosphere of secrecy and privileged knowledge within the group?
Does The Family respect each member's privacy? Are wayward members confronted about their sin privately and lovingly rather than subjected to physical punishment and public humiliation?
Does The Family control members' sexuality and marriage, either by forbidding it or encouraging incest, extra-marital sex, arranged marriages, etc.
Does The Family encourage members to give money and time to the group as God leads them, rather than setting strict demanding rules? Do the leaders set godly examples by shunning self-indulgent extravagance?
Does The Family serve and interact with the larger Christian community?
Are members encouraged to think critically and voice doubts or objections?
Does The Family encourage members to build healthy relationships with friends and family members who are not part of the group?
Are members allowed to leave The Family without being made to feel guilty or fearful?
