I haven't had time to read all of the posts on this thread and if anyone has already said this please forgive me. If S D is sorry for what she has done, and I mean the full extent, wouldn't she have left the Family by now.
Maybe one the things that keeps these perps in the Family is the fact that they are criminals and without their anominity in the Family and the protection of the Family that would probably be in jail. Here they can hide themselves very well.
If she really thought what she did was wrong wouldn't she be out by now?