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In Reply to: Breaking it down posted by Jules on December 10, 2003 at 13:58:35:
You break it down well. While it is true that it is not easy to tell who does something by nature or not, and expressing guilt is not a disqualifier, I do see distinct differences though and believe that there are differences between people who do something out of coercion and those who seek it out because it is in their nature. Saying this does not defend perpetrators or take away any self-responsibility.
My point of bringing up this topic was not to seek confrontation with you or any other SG, it was based in seeking out healing. You will notice that I have almost never posted on movingon out of respect for the guidelines of your board to out of respect for your board's set-up. The only maybe two posts that I put there were (one) to provide an address requested by SG's, and the other to list some resources. And this was a long time ago.
I have never discussed these topics over there. Over here, I would want to feel free to do so and I appreciate what you have to say and that you do respond here. I am sorry that some posts have felt so hurtful to you.
