Many ways to skin a cat

It is not surprising that the ex-member community, being as diffuse as it is and representing so many different perspectives, should disagree about how to deal with the F. However, l think that it is totally wrong for one individual or group to believe that: "Yea my way is right" and if you don't follow my orthodoxy then you are wrong, too much like the F for my liking and, sad to say, certain individuals pronouncements do smack of the: He who is not with us is against us mindset.

As for this whole confidentiality thing my take on it is that you can quote me on anything as long as l haven't asked for confidentiality, if l ahave and you break that trust watch out.