just one of the guys/gals

I have thought alot about this topic. I think one reason I like this site so much is that I don't recognize anyone that is a coordinator here as having been any personality in the family. Sometimes it seems like people can keep an air of superior importance having been famous for their family participation, leadership position, "royal" associations or otherwise. The way I look at it, we were all in this together, regardless of position, and in recovery, for those who have left and are not by character pedophiles,child molesters, incestors, we all deserve equal healing opportunities. It is funny sometimes how the "family" had different levels of respect and privelege for others. I would love to get together sometime with a bunch of ex-family nobodies and just enjoy some good laughter, maybe a few crying bouts, and no official EMCEE. NO LEADERS would be allowed!! Maybe we could have a weenie roast...hahaha! ;)