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In Reply to: I've been reading posted by Acheick on August 19, 2002 at 19:44:17:
I read clan of the cave bear and the one after that, but no others. And that was a long time ago. I am in a monogamous relationship and also consider this to be the way of life I choose and want. Swingers is a movement that is everywhere as far as I know. That and a lot of other stuff. I think the worst part of "sharing" sexually in the family was that grotesque rape feeling when it was someone I couldn't stand being touched by, and that horrible emptiness when the sex was over when it was someone that was attractive to me, when they left: the feeling of being used, objectified and dirty. I have problems because of past abuse, before and during the family, but I am glad that I am in a monogamous relationship now. It took a long time for me to get into any relationship. It is so helpful to me because my partner is very social where I am withdrawn. We complement each other. The wolf thing, I relate to. I see wolves as wonderful animals that are loyal, mate for life. They are intelligent too.
